Friday, November 11, 2016

emotional pathology



It’s the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine. [REM]

Understanding how eotw scenarios might play out, especially when they are based in very real interpretations (not paranoid, but grounded in solid scientific and rational studies) of situations and events, is important. We should avoid at all costs the temptation to bury our heads in the sand and feel content to let the future fall where it may. But these considerations must be balanced against the fundamental idea that, no matter how much we may want to believe otherwise, we cannot know for certain what will happen in the future. The dour Chicken-Littles of the world who run around bemoaning the fate of humanity and the planet, though they may turn out to be absolutely correct, do no favors to anyone, least of all themselves. I say that we must understand the truth about what’s going on and what seems likely or even merely possible to happen, but to bring such emotion, and certainly much neurosis, to the planning table is ridiculous. That “strategy” only serves to trade any present peace and goodwill for future (and perhaps vain) assurances. Leave the emotion at home, people; wallow in it at night when you awaken out of your horrific dreams. And, in the brightening morning, in light of day, consider this: You may believe this is all going to happen to us tomorrow or next week, but it’s not; not even next month or next year. And the bits of it that are happening right now, the real-time ongoing situations and events, are concerns enough; by dealing with them, properly and adequately, rationally and objectively, in the present, we effectively deal with them in the future as well. My big point here is this: these catastrophes you worry about, these imagined nightmare scenarios, will in no way be avoided because you have gotten all bent out of shape, emotionally charged, and driven to despair (even to the point, as more than one person has testified to me, of imagining how you might, as painlessly as possible, kill yourself so as to avoid the time when food and energy shortages have created a world where you must live cold, hungry, and without your internet or TV). Yes, we need rational, scientific solutions to present day problems so that they do not escalate further; but your anxiety is misplaced when it’s projected onto a failing planet. It’s you you’re worrying about, not the future of humanity. Get a grip. More than likely, certainly if you are over 40 or 50 years of age, you will be gone before conditions deteriorate to a point of what you might consider severity. (The scaremongers who say the end is just around the corner are wrong; their message is an outshoot of their pathology.) And, likely, if are younger than 40 or 50, you’re not one of the end-of-the-worlders; those kids are dealing. [I make a minor exception to my angst-dismissal for mothers (and wussy-tending fathers) of younger kids, with one caveat to this caveat: consider how your biological attachment may be affecting your rational judgment.] So, in short, potential eotw scenarios may or may not have a very real basis in science, but the near-hysteria phenomenon attached to them is an emotional disorder. Deal with that (pathological) issue, and you’ll be fine. 
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